The Rizzler is my name for someone who truly steps into other people's worlds. For one month, every conversation is practice.
If the month works, it never ends.
Put myself in the other person's shoes, every single conversation. Really visualize what they're saying, their thoughts. Try to feel what they feel.
That's the whole assignment. If I try to remember ten rules at once, none of them happen. Simple gets done.
Everybody is the main character of their own movie. Week one, I step into theirs.
If I have advice worth giving, or I see something somebody could improve, I hold it. First, at least two questions, to help them find the answer themselves. If they can't find it, then I point at it directly.
The questions do double duty: I understand their situation better, and when I do point, I point better.
One month, four check-ins: what changed, what the log says, what I adjust.
Reflections get written here weekly. If the month works, this section keeps growing for a long time.
Week one's reflection lands soon. Until then, I'm in someone else's shoes.