Dating me, honestly.
The dating questions, answered without the polish.
What would someone notice if they followed me around for a week?
They'd probably think I'm obsessed with business. Not because I can't stop talking about it, but because it's genuinely what I enjoy.
Almost everything I do right now is either working on the business or figuring out how to make it run without me — building training systems, learning how to hire well, putting the right people in the right roles.
Outside of that, I live pretty intentionally. I deleted Instagram. I deleted YouTube. Everyone knows how easy it is to lose an hour scrolling, and I caught myself saying just one more video a little too often.
Instead of relying on willpower every day, I removed the temptation altogether.
What do I secretly judge people for?
Giving up the moment something gets difficult. It's not that I expect anyone to be perfect — I'm definitely not, and I've quit things before. But when I decide something actually matters to me, I stick with it.
Losing weight is the example. I've done it slowly on purpose: no crash diet, no race to the finish line.
Lost in one year30 lbsall fat, no muscle
Habits built to lastLifetimenot five weeks
A lot of people sabotage themselves because they're impatient. They go all in, burn out, and end up right back where they started.
I'd rather make slower progress that actually lasts.
I track almost everything.
Religiously, and not in a joyless way. If it matters to me, it gets written down.
- Workouts
- Diet
- Sleep
- Girls talked to
- And the list goes on
I do it so I can genuinely see how I'm doing instead of guessing, and improve about 1% a week.
What personality trait do I find really attractive?
Playfulness. Most people would expect me to say ambition because I'm so focused on work — that's exactly why I don't.
When I'm building something, my brain is locked in: thinking, solving problems, planning ahead. So when I'm with someone I care about, I don't want it to feel like another job.
- Laugh over nothing
- Make fun of me
- Turn a grocery run into an adventure
- Decide we're getting dessert — at 10 o'clock at night
The relationship is where I want to recharge.
What kind of person would ruin my peace?
Someone who's completely dependent. I genuinely enjoy helping people I care about, but I don't want to feel like I'm raising another adult.
If every small inconvenience becomes my emergency, that eventually stops feeling like a partnership. The best ones are two capable people choosing to build a life together — not one person carrying the other.
What would my exes or close friends warn you about?
Two years agoHe's a great guy... but business comes first.
NowSystems, delegated work, and enough breathing room to enjoy life again.
Back then they'd have been right. If I stopped pushing, the business would have fallen apart — every day felt like putting out fires.
Ironically, that stability is why I've spent the last few months taking myself on dates. Nice restaurants, coffee shops, weekend activities. I wanted to figure out what I genuinely enjoy instead of guessing, so now I know exactly what makes a great date — because I've already enjoyed it myself.
What habit might drive you crazy after six months?
Probably my eating habits. I'm still pretty disciplined about my diet because I'm working toward getting leaner. I'm not obsessive, but I do like eating with a goal in mind.
Hopefully whoever I'm with likes healthy food — because there's a good chance we'll end up trying a lot of it together.
Now you know.
More answers get added as I work them out, so this page keeps growing.